{"id":162,"date":"2012-09-01T12:07:26","date_gmt":"2012-09-01T19:07:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ezraengle.wordpress.com\/?p=141"},"modified":"2013-04-11T17:02:41","modified_gmt":"2013-04-12T00:02:41","slug":"reading-for-understanding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/ezraengle.com\/blog\/2012\/09\/reading-for-understanding\/","title":{"rendered":"Reading for Understanding"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ezraengle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/20120901-115108.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/ezraengle.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/20120901-115108.jpg\" alt=\"20120901-115108.jpg\" class=\"alignnone size-full\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nWhen some read, their goal is to understand, while others want to invalidate that what they are reading is worth their time. <\/p>\n<p>I get it, <strong>I do that with junk mail<\/strong>. Perhaps I would read through what i saw as junk mail, if there was a passionate person who really cared about it enough to discuss how it really changed their life in some way. I could be convinced they were worth listening to because they respect my opinion and my time. <strong>Respect is the great adaptor for challenging ideas and sharing knowledge.<\/strong> Without respect, ideas cannot pass effectively. The greatest respect is shown through a willingness to also have an interest and listen to my ideas or beliefs. So far, it seems junk mail is only a low cost way to mass market products and services for businesses. The motive seems pretty plain and simple. <\/p>\n<p>There have, however, been passionate people who have come to my door and I do hear them out, and I let them keep coming to talk more and discuss their ideas. Eventually, their passions and motives are made plain and we have a sort of mutual respect for one another, even without agreeing about everything we believe. I am not threatened by <strong>hearing<\/strong> or <strong>reading<\/strong> about different beliefs and ideas, and I love being around others who have a similar confidence or curiosity about what others think and believe, and what their reasoning is to come to such a hope or certainty in their view. <\/p>\n<p>I only hope to come across this way to those I write to online as well, because there is a sort of coldness to digital communication that many times is taken as disrespect or condescension. I aim to <em>both love and to understand<\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When some read, their goal is to understand, while others want to invalidate that what they are reading is worth their time. I get it, I do that with junk mail. 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